The deal goes something like this.
“Hi Geoff, yea I want to get over to the game but the traffic is all clogged up.”
“No of course I’m not going to use the car pool lane. Why not? Because I’m just not okay.”
“Hey baby, you wanna go have some fun this afternoon?”
“No it’s alright thanks, I’m going to watch the Dodgers.” Thinks…
“Yea, sure, hop in.”
“So what do you want to do baby?”
“No really, we’re just going to watch to game.”
Zips past the snarled up non car pooling traffic.